WTF another Block and my transaction still not included !!!!! I didn't pay any fee thought....I missed 610 and 600 and now it is 592.... F#$% the free transaction 

So you saved $0.06 and lost hundreds or thousands?

software didnt offer the option to pay fee, he said
What kind of software developer leaves this out? Not someone interested in the longevity of btc's that's for sure! If we don't pay the transaction fees (which are tiny) then miners eventually don't get paid enough to make it worthwhile and we all lose.