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February 19, 2015, 09:30:43 AM


To dial it back more big picture and less in terms of mechanics, I think the emotional dynamic of success in this situation is --

1) Your potential for success goes through the roof if she genuinely admires you;

2) You can't ask in a bitchy way like you're asking for a chore or ordeal from her, you literally create the "no" for her already by asking the wrong way. The right way to put across the vibe that it will be fun and doing it will make you very happy with her. Which is actually the truth if you're not a dirtbag.

Unfortunately neither of those criteria can really be faked expressly for the purpose of getting anal. Also I'm considering the situation of fairly well-adjusted virtuous people and not crazy headcases, because the scenario I'm describing is pretty much involves her being super into you and you wanting to do anal because you genuinely like having sex with her, so big picture I think the way you really succeed is by being the sort of dude your sexual partner will want to do things for, and you wanting to do it for the right reasons.