WTF another Block and my transaction still not included !!!!! I didn't pay any fee thought....I missed 610 and 600 and now it is 592.... F#$% the free transaction 

So you saved $0.06 and lost hundreds or thousands?

software didnt offer the option to pay fee, he said
Both QT and Armory do. Not sure about others but it probably just wasn't necessary according to the rules. It's always possible to manually set a fee in the settings.